Sanctuary and Serenity

Is AlaTeen For Me?

Posted on: March 27, 2010


Is AlaTeen For Me?

Alcoholism is a family disease. Those of us who have lived with this disease as children sometimes have problems which the Al-Anon program can help us to resolve.  If someone close to you has, or has had, a drinking problem the following questions may help you in determining whether alcoholism affected your childhood or present life, and if Al-Anon is for you.

1. Do you constantly seek approval and affirmation?

2. Do you fail to recognize your accomplishments?

3. Do you fear criticism?

4. Do you over extend yourself?

5. Have you had problems with your own compulsive behavior?

6. Do you have a need for perfection?

7. Are you uneasy when your life is going smoothly, continually anticipating problems?

8. Do you feel more alive in the midst of a crisis?

9. Do you still feel responsible for others, as you did for the problem drinker in your life?

10. Do you care for others easily, yet find it difficult to care for yourself?

11. Do you isolate yourself from other people?

12. Do you respond with fear to authority figures and angry people?

13. do you feel that individuals and society in general are taking advantage of you?

14. Do you have trouble with intimate relationships?

15. Do you confuse pity with love, as you did with the problem drinker?

16. Do you attract and/or seek people who tend to be compulsive and abusive?

17. Do you cling to relationships because you are afraid of being alone?

18. Do you mistrust your own feelings and the feelings expressed by others?

19. Do you find it difficult to identify and express your emotions?

20. Do you think parental drinking may have affected you?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, Al-Anon or Alateen may be able to help you.

You can contact Al-Anon or Alateen  calling 1-888-4AL-ANON (888-425-2666), 8am to 6pm ET, Monday through Friday or by visiting the official Alanon Website
http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/

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