Sanctuary and Serenity

Detachment

Posted on: March 27, 2010


“In July, 1999, I appeared as a guest expert on “Oprah” to discuss “The Disease to Please.” Oprah told her audience that this “disease” – the people-pleasing syndrome – is an issue that is very important and personal to her. It is a problem that she has struggled long and hard to overcome. And, she believes as I do, that there are epidemic numbers of women – and men, too – plagued by the self-imposed pressure to please others at the expense of their own health and happiness.”
Our tribute to the late Harriet B. Braiker, Ph.D. Author of The Disease to Please, Curing the People-Pleasing Syndrome

Emotional Detachment – Mentions Borderline Personality Disorder
http://www.bpd411.org/emotionaldetachmentintro.html
http://www.bpd411.org/detach.html

Detachment
http://www.coping.org/control/detach.htm

The Dark Twin inside ourselves by Lynne Forrest
http://lynneforrest.com/articles/darktwin.html
The Shadow Self (Reiki site)
http://www.reiki.org/reikinews/ShadowSelf.html

Breaking Free of Emotional Bondage
http://www.mtoomey.com/breakingfree.html

Are you in a Toxic Relationship – With Yourself?
http://www.myndtalk.org/htm/toxicrelationships.htm

Facing the Enemies Within by Jim Rohn
http://content.miw.com.sg/LifeStyle/Motivation/ls_motivation02_20030307.asp

Lessons about Emotional Detachment
http://incestabuse.about.com/library/weekly/aa112502b.htm

Emotional Detachment
http://www.heartrelationships.com/ARTICLES/Attachment/attachmentApril19.htm

Emotional Detaching (from an abusive relationship) – The Tears and Healing sites:
http://tearsandhealing.com/
http://tearsandhealing.com/metaphysics-of-detaching.htm
http://tearsandhealing.com/detaching-and-relationship-dimensions.htm
http://tearsandhealing.com/selective-detaching.htm

Personal Responsibility
http://www.coping.org/growth/accept.htm

Why Do People Chose One Bad Relationship After Another?
http://www.voicelessness.com/repetition.html

Co-dependency – a Checklist format
http://www.celebraterecovery.com/smallgroups/codependant.asp

Co-dependency Healing, Inner-child Healing and Recovery
http://www.joy2meu.com/index.html
Co-dependents Anonymous
http://www.codependents.org/
Co-dependency
http://codependency101.com/
Abusive Co-dependency
http://codependency101.com/abuse.html

Emotional Abuse site Robert Burney: Co-dependency/Inner child
http://www.suite101.com/welcome.cfm/codependency_recovery

A checklist – Are You Co-dependent? Taking Care of Yourself
http://members.aol.com/BPDCentral/care.html

Co-dependents.org
http://www.codependents.org/

The Cause of Self Defeating Behavior
http://www.wendyhill.com/cause.html

Understanding and Changing Self Defeating Beliefs
http://www.rational.org.nz/public/BeliefsQuestionnaire/welcome1.htm

Co-Dependent & Dependent Personality Disorders
http://www.psychnet-uk.com/clinical_psychology/personality_disorders_co_dependent.htm

Addictive Relationships
http://www.couns.uiuc.edu/Brochures/addict.htm
Addictive Relationships
http://www.parkland.cc.il.us/ss/counseling/addictiv.html and
http://love-addiction.com/loveaddict34.html
Addictive Relationships Discussion Forum
http://www.shpm.com/phorum/list.php?f=95
Personal Responsibility – Ending Co-dependence
http://www.geocities.com/kerry_l_dennis/MPD/Articles/responsibility.html

Characteristics of Addictive Relationships
http://www.ta-tutor.com/webpdf/ram186.pdf

Developing Self-Control
http://www.coping.org/control/selfcont.htm

The Joy of Self Discipline
http://www.wendyhill.com/joy.html
Self Discipline
http://www.more-selfesteem.com/selfdiscipline.htm

Addictive Relationships – Addressing the fear of being alone
http://www.studentaffairs.cmu.edu/counseling/documents/relation.htmDon’t Call that Man!!
http://www.rhondafindling.com/BookExcerpt.htm

Addicted to Love?
http://www.ncpg.com/self4.html

Recovering From Addictive Relationships
http://test.namb.net/helplink/REL-ADRE.asp

Tempted to Call your N/P? Here’s help to overcome those strong feelings
http://www.rationalrecovery.org/Crash.html

Crash Course on AVRT – Highly recommended (See Bullets for my Beast at end of page)
http://www.rational.org/Structure.html
Secrets of Change
http://www.janefirbank.com/articles/articles.html

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